I am confused
Reading a blog from a former colleague, she blogged about what she likes about
She pointed out that they have a legal prostitute service for men; and she says the rape rate was lower in their country since sex is not something that they will only talk about when the door is closed. It’s sounded like it’s okay for a man to seek prostitutes regardless any circumstances. And a woman should accept the fact that men do go for prostitution and she should just accept it or at least act like she knows nothing. This really turns my moral world up-side down.
I divorced my husband a year ago, part of the reason was he seek prostitutes secretly for many years. I told him, “I can’t bear it anymore; I don’t even know who you slept with before you come home”.
Of course there were many other incidences and occurrences that lead to our failed marriage. But women deserved to have more respect and marriage vows between husband and wife pledged their undivided love. Don’t we deserve a clean and respectable man when we have intimacy with him?
I am seriously confused.
I fully agree with what you say. While I don’t agree with seeking prostitutes as a single man, I definitely would not do so when married. It is no more than cheating, and if you are not bound to another person, it is nothing more than disrespect.
It is my personal belief that the world as a whole is going downhill when it comes to this issue, and it seems as though more and more of society is run by sex… more so than 10 years ago, and it will be even more 10 years from now.
All we can do is hold fast to our morals and beliefs, and teach our children what we believe and hope they follow our advice and not the world’s.
Comment by x3r0bug — July 24, 2007 @ 7:31 am
I admire you J.B., with your belief and attitude, may the world been touch by people like you, so to save most of those broken heart, and to a better world.
Comment by joanne — July 24, 2007 @ 9:58 am