Painful lesson
Yet another painful lesson I had learned. It’s not wasting though; at least I did learn something that will benefit me for the rest of my life.
Do not speak or make any argument while you are in emotion, at that moment, whatever comes out from you, will not only hurt others, it will eventually fire back at yourself.
Only if we are able to admit our own mistake, if only when we are willing to face our mistake, then only we will grow from there.
He came, and cried in front of me. He said he really tried apologizing to me, he said he really regretted how he treated me. I did not really understand which part he meant, but at least, I can feel his sincerity, this time.
We both gone through a long way to learn from our mistakes. I think this is a process that we need to go through so that we can really grow from there.
The resentment and hatred kept building up since we decided to separate. Never thought that divorce will settle all your problems, it will eventually surface in front of you and you are forced to face it everyday! If you have no awareness or keep being stubborn, it will only hurt you more. If you have children, it will also hurt them too.
There is always a solution, if you are willing.







