Relationship
In part 1, we talk about the top three mistakes when attracting your life partner, here we continue for the last two mistakes ....
Mistake 4.
Looking a gift horse in the mouth
This one has actually happened to me. Your friends know you are “looking” and they set you up, but being stubborn you decide ahead of time that its not going to work or that you won't like the person. Result? Even if they were a potential perfect life partner for you your mental outlook has doomed you to failure before you even meet them!
The next time someone invites you to a friends place to meet “someone who would be perfect for you” be grateful! This is the abundance of the universe flowing your way! Be open to it. Welcome it. And if there is a connection, go for it!
Mistake 5.
Not looking out for number one
I have saved the biggest one for last because I want you to remember it. Not taking care of yourself – by that I mean truly caring about yourself, loving yourself and accepting yourself, blemished and all – is the single biggest reason people fail to attract the perfect life partner of their dreams.
But there is hope! When you look inside and come to terms with your “rough edges” and truly love yourself you begin to literally radiate confidence, passion, joy and power. This is the ultimate aphrodisiac love potion that you could find anywhere in the world! Do what ever you need to do to clear out your “baggage” be it therapy, coaching or even lots of exercise and meditation. When you clean house in this way and truly care about yourself this is when your magnetic power of attraction kicks in and from there is only a matter of a short time till you meet, connect and join with your perfect life partner.
We have all met people who are physically unattractive, handicapped or otherwise challenged and yet in spite of these drawbacks they have fantastic personalities, great friends and loving relationships. Why? Because they have done the work and they look out for number one. In many cases that one simple fact may have literally saved their life.
So as soon as you finish reading this, take some action. Book a treatment, a massage, a long walk in the forest, anything as long as it is for YOU and will nurture and grow your love for your totally unique and special self!
Sasha LeBaron is an author of two books and many articles on the specific techniques and tools involved with finding your perfect life partner. He lives on the gulf islands of BC, Canada with his perfect life partner and a large fluffy cat. Learn how you can find YOUR perfect life partner in as little as ten minutes per day at www.FindYourPerfectLifePartner.com
