Relationship
Lets face it if finding your perfect life partner was easy everyone would have done it. That being said, it is by no means out of the range of possible for anyone who is sufficiently motivated.
Today we are going to look at some of the most serious mistakes you might be making when attracting or as I prefer, manifesting, you perfect life partner.
Mistake 1.
Trying too hard
This is a “no brainer” but you wouldn't believe how many questions I get from people struggling with this simple concepts of attraction. The key here is to relax. The more relaxed you are the deeper you will breathe and the more energy you will have and from those two actions the more charisma you will have. So for example, if you are fond of the library and you feel this would be a likely place to meet your soulmate; go volunteer there!
Your being there on a regular basis will create comfort for you, allowing you to relax and from this relaxed place you will naturally become 100% more magnetic to your future life partner. Who knows he or she may be volunteering there right now!
Mistake 2.
Not being patient
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life. ~ Chinese Proverb
Who ever came up with this was on the right track! Also “Good things come to those who wait.” And other such sayings are all pointing at the same thing; patience. So when you are on the “hunt” what do you radiate? That's right! Impatience. Maybe even... desperation? And nothing will make you miss those “chance” encounters faster than being in a hurry or being desperate, in your life or in your quest for the perfect life partner.
So when you have set the wheels in motion to magnetizing your perfect life partner, give your self room to breathe! You wouldn't rush a fine wine would you? Or a Rembrandt painting? No, you would allow the forces of the universe to work in the way they are supposed to and you would be patient. Your relationship with your perfect life partner is as important as any fine vintage or masterpiece of art, so don't rush it!
Mistake 3.
Keeping your “blinders” on
In the old days of horse and buggies in the city the horses would be fitted with flaps beside their eyes so they wouldn't be spooked by things happening “out of the corner of their eye” these flaps were called blinders. Humans have them too, only they are in your head and sometimes around your heart.
There you are in a place you have been “a thousand times before” your potential perfect life partner is standing right next to you and you are so “caught up” in doing your important business that you don't even notice him or her!
Can you imagine how painful this would be if you were “that close” and you let your perfect partner slip away because you had your blinders on? So keep your eyes wide open! Look at each person you interact with, in the eyes! Not only will you get a better sense of who they are, but people will like you more too! And when you feel that click... you won't be too busy to notice!
... to be continued ...